“Always laugh when you can, it is cheap medicine” -Lord Byron
I woke up tired again today. For me, waking up tired is one of the hardest feelings in the world. When this is combined with steroids, stress, and an inability to meet my responsibilities the days feel incredibly long. Yesterday, I yelled at my partner for cutting potatoes for French Fries into rectangles as opposed to using the cheese grater to make round potato chip like French Fries. Of course, this yelling resulted in my second crying meltdown of the day.
They say that people with Crohn’s ought to avoid stress. But, when the Crohn’s is resulting in decreased economic earning power, the difficulties of meeting basic life functions i.e. being awake long enough to do things like dishes, laundry, and showering, and there is the added guilt of not being physically able to spend time with a dying parent the emotional devastation gets to be a bit much. When daily pain is thrown in, and our diets become so restricted that even a simple meal becomes a challenge of extraordinary proportions it can be incredibly hard to focus on the big picture, hold onto to hope, or hell even smile at the insane. But, laughter truly is the best medicine and in these moments finding something to laugh at can make all of the difference.
Yesterday, my thing to laugh at was the need to be institutionalized. I felt as if my grip on reality was slipping, my emotions were a yo-yo of anger, frustration, grief, and fear which led to more than one moment of me crying while my partner kept telling me it was going to be okay, and while I knew that it was going to be okay in the moment I did not feel like it was going to be okay.
In response to a desperate plea for help my sister unknowingly made me laugh so hard I cried. After texting her that I was losing my grip on reality and that I felt as if I needed to be admitted to a psychiatric facility she replied with “well start with finding out if you can wean a little? And then get a referral to an institution.” For some reason, I just started laughing- perhaps there was nothing else I could do? But, in laughing, I finally had a little bit of relief from the emotional agony I had been walking through.
The Power of Laughter
Laughter has a myriad of benefits. Among these benefits are: stress reduction, immune system boosts, decreased physical pain, and improved mood.
High levels of stress are linked to decreased health. When we experience stress our hearts race, our breathing becomes faster, and our muscles prepare for action. During the time of stress, our adrenal glands release both adrenaline and cortisol which have negative impacts on our health. In fact, high stress has been linked to cardiovascular problems, headaches, stroke, body aches, and harmful behavior such as overeating and alcohol and drug abuse. But, when we laugh our bodies have increased oxygenation and our brain releases endorphins and neurotransmitters. The increased oxygenation can decrease the risks of cardiovascular problems as well as reducing the other negative impacts of stress on the body. Laughter also decreases the presence of stress hormones which lower immune response and lead to harmful behaviors.
Immune System Boost and Pain Relief
Endorphins are the bodies plain relievers. Like opiates, Endorphins attach to our brain receptors which can reduce pain as well as improve our overall mood. Not only does laughter result in decreased physical pain, but it also has been linked to immune systems boosts. Stress results in a chemical reaction in the body which lowers our immune response. In contrast, laughter releases neuropeptides which can fight stress and illness. Laughter also increases the efficiency of T-cells which gives a person an additional immune boost. Finally, the decrease of stress hormones that comes with laughter has its own immune-boosting effect.
With the increase in endorphins that it provides laughing has a natural mood-boosting effect. We also can’t be angry or anxious when we are laughing. The Mayo Clinic says that laughter can also lessen depression and anxiety which will lead to us feeling happier. Laughter also helps us to shift our thinking from negative to positive. Through laughter, we can gain perspective on the situations and gain psychological distance from the depression, anger, or anxiety. With this psychological distance comes balance and a better ability to think positively about the situation at hand.
How to Find Humor
For those of us living in hopeless or defeating circumstances, it can be challenging to find something to laugh at. Finding ways to find humor in the absurd can help to increase the presence of laughter in our lives. But, even if we are not in a place where we can laugh at the situation, we can find others ways to obtain the health benefits of laughter
- Watch a comedy special or a funny movie. Netflix and Hulu both offer a range of options for comedy. If I don’t have time for an entire comedy special or movie, youtube has countless funny videos that can make me laugh in under five minutes. Start with a search for your favorite comedian, or terms such as “funny.”
- Spend time with funny people. My brother is one of those people who have zero ability to self-filter which leads to him saying the things everyone is thinking, but no one says. As such, whenever I spend time with him, I find myself laughing more than not. When I need a mood boost, Luke is always someone I can count on.
- Fake it! Some Yoga gurus have already caught onto the healing power of laughter and in some practices fake laughter and breath work go hand in hand. Even though we might feel a bit ridiculous faking our laughter, eventually the mood boost of faking it and the absurdity of it will lead to real laughter.